This section explores the complex and often destructive forms of individuality manifestation that arise when standard paths for obtaining approval and improving status are blocked. These manifestations are not pathologies in the pure sense, but represent adaptive, albeit socially dangerous, strategies for resolving cognitive dissonance and enhancing the "pain impulse," directed outward or inward.
1. Approval Through Informational Empathy: Solidarity with the DeviantWhen an individual is systematically rejected by society, their "pain impulse" from not meeting expectations seeks non-standard paths of resolution. One such path becomes approval through informational empathy – a psychological mechanism where an individual, consuming news about crimes or deviant acts, empathizes with and even solidarizes with the offender. The rejected individual, whose "bases" find no resonance, discovers in the criminal's actions a logic understandable to themselves. They see in the crime not an abstract "evil," but a specific reaction to social pressure, humiliation, or injustice – the same triggers that cause their own "pain impulse."
Example: A young man constantly subjected to mockery due to his social background or appearance, reading about an attack by a similar "outcast" on members of a hostile group, mentally justifies the aggressor: "I understand what drove him to it. I could do the same." This is not approval of violence as such, but approval of the cause and motive that resonate with his own experience of rejection. Thus, he receives indirect approval of his own "pain impulse" and finds an alternative social niche – a virtual community of "those who understand" and "justify."
2. Deviance as Communication: The Language of Wounds and InjuriesIn cases where an individual's individuality does not enter into total confrontation with society but acutely experiences the gap between declared social values and the real attitude towards them, deviant behavior aimed at self-harm or demonstrative aggression may arise. This strategy is a desperate attempt to visualize the internal "pain impulse," to make it tangible for society. If words and pleas are ignored, then scars, injuries, or acts of demonstrative vandalism become the only available "language" to scream: "Your value system is hypocritical! You preach mercy and justice, but your actions towards me cause pain. Look at this pain!"
Example: A teenager making cuts on their arms often does so not because they seek death, but because they cannot otherwise convey to parents or peers the depth of their loneliness and misunderstanding. Their actions are an unspoken accusation against an environment that fails to perform its stated function of support and protection.
3. Masochism as an Identification Strategy and Its Neurophysiological BasisThe phenomenon of masochism, contrary to a superficial view, is often not associated with obtaining physiological pleasure from pain as such. It is a complex behavioral strategy aimed at elevating one's own "form" through the acceptance and transformation of suffering, which receives powerful reinforcement at the neurophysiological level.
Psychological Mechanism: In conditions where all conservative and socially approved methods of self-identification are exhausted or unavailable, the individual chooses the path of voluntary acceptance and control over pain. This allows them to:
- Transform Humiliation into Chosenness: Passive suffering from external circumstances turns into an active, controlled act. The individual not only endures pain but uses it as a resource to build a unique identity, elevating them above those incapable of such.
- Achieve Existential Certainty: In the act of self-infliction of pain, they experience an extremely clear and intense sensation of their own "I" – their "form," delineated from the surrounding world through suffering.
Neurophysiological Reinforcement: The key to understanding lies in the fact that the "pain impulse" at the psychological level is processed by the brain according to principles similar to physical pain. The voluntary acceptance of pain and the subsequent sensation of superiority and control are interpreted by the nervous system as a successful resolution of this "impulse," as a victory over the threat. At this moment, a powerful hormonal response is triggered. Endorphins are released to naturally suppress pain signals and create a state of euphoria. Dopamine is released as part of the reward system, reinforcing the action – not the act of pain itself, but the successful strategy of self-identification and overcoming. The brain "rewards" the individual for finding a unique, albeit destructive, way to assert their individuality and relieve psychological tension.
Example: A member of an extreme subculture undergoing a painful initiation rite experiences not just pain. Through its overcoming, they receive a double reward: social status as "chosen" within the group and a powerful neurochemical surge, subjectively experienced as triumph, purification, and deep self-realization. Their individuality is not just manifested, but virtuously asserted through suffering, receiving direct physiological reinforcement.
Thus, masochism represents a vicious but effective cycle for the individual: psychological need for identity → voluntary acceptance of pain as a strategy → sensation of control and superiority → powerful hormonal release, reinforcing this behavioral model as "successful."
4. Competition and Revanchism: The Biology of Gambling and LossThe pleasure from competition is biologically determined and possible only under conditions of a statistically expected improvement in one's position. The brain interprets a potential win as a signal for action promising the enhancement of "form" (access to resources, status). However, the key factor is not the win itself, but the dynamics of the position change. Any deterioration of position from the starting point ("loss") provokes a powerful "pain impulse" and activates a strategy of revanchism – an irrational striving to return to the starting point at any cost. Evolutionarily, this is justified: loss of resources threatens survival.
Example – Gambling Addiction: A gambler who has incurred losses focuses not on the absolute size of the losses, but on the fact of deviation from the initial state. Their behavior is driven not by greed, but by a powerful "pain impulse" from the imbalance. "Winning back" means not just getting the money back, but eliminating the imbalance itself, restoring the integrity of their "form," violated by the loss. People capable of cold assessment and "negative fixation" – accepting losses as a fait accompli and switching to alternative survival strategies not related to self-destructive struggle for what is already lost – are not susceptible to gambling addiction.
Thus, destructive at first glance manifestations – from solidarity with criminals to self-harm and gambling addiction – are logical, albeit dead-end, attempts by individuality to resolve an unresolved "pain impulse" and cognitive dissonance arising from a clash with society. They demonstrate that the striving for approval and preservation of "form" can take extremely sophisticated and socially dangerous forms.